HOW SELFISH AND MISER WE ARE!!!!

How Selfish and Miser We are!

Have u ever been able to observe your own personal attitude towards others? Have you ever contemplated what you really do to others just to get what u want out of others? Many a times I have been in baffling situation, when I found that people want to get everything out of others, without contributing anything in return; not even the simple gratitude. It is my observation or say observation of many people that we are so much concerned about ourselves, so much soaked with our own selfish nature that sometime we don’t even recognize how someone is contributing so much goodness sometime to our life just because they want to be kind to us and want to see that we live better. Sometime we just want to take the advantage of others goodness by claiming for those things that doesn’t belong to us. Can you just accept the fact that someone comes to you and tells you / force you to give your home off to someone because you were kind one day to him just giving a place to rest for a night? How would you feel? Wouldn’t it break your heart? Make you feel remorseful? It is just a simple example. Most often we exercise our power on others illegally just because those people are kind and helpful to us.

Sometime we just want to get everything for our benefits without even a bit of care of how the other person feels. We love to get the maximum care we can get from others without even imparting a bit of care for them. Each of us have a greater need for the care of others, we feel the need that someone will care for us. How selfish and how rude it is to exploit someone by robbing their care for ourselves without just giving a bit of it from ours!. We are so stiff with your heart as if, if we just share a bit of our love, we will run dry. This attitude of ours makes others life miserable. And it makes the good people feel that they are treated unfairly, that their goodness are not understood, that their effort to help others is not properly felt by the one who receives the help.

I personally feel exploited and used when someone takes the benefits out of me without sharing a bit to me. How I wish that they would return kindness for kindness that I can offer sometime! My contribution to someone’s life might be so little! So trifle! But I am sure that there are people who share much goodness than what I can ever imagine! I wish that each of us will have some attitude to show gratitude to others for the goodness that they shower on us.

God has not created human being to be so selfish, so much self-seeking. He created each of us with the mind and heart to give, give as much as we can. And if we cannot give even a little bit then our existence as human being are futile, we have become just like some other animals! I just feel it.

Our Own Follies!!!

Our Own Follies

It has been my experiences that most often people don’t want to understand the simple things even though it is spoken clearly. I feel that it is because they cannot break out their cocoon of personal conservative ideas or say their own egoistic feelings. They don’t want to bow down to truth and therefore shows their hesitance towards accepting the factual ideas. I observed that it is easy to please someone when we speak on their favour supporting their own ideas, without bothering whether it is wrong or right. If you go against of what they just expressed and speak differently than what their ideas are, you will be felt as threats of their long term reserved egoistic feelings. Most often people don’t want to change their own perspective being so stubborn to their roots. But I feel that we must understand that differences of opinions are not the threats to what we think but they are a different outlook, and a scope to learn something new. Each of us are fashioned differently, our thoughts and our feelings towards a particular things might be different just because our realization and our senses might not give the similar response from the stimulus. Therefore, we ought to respect of what others things and try to understand their points. There is always a possibility of going to a wrong conclusion of a certain matter too if one is given the full freedom of taking things one way. Therefore each of our ideas have values and they must be brought under a control panel to derive the best outcome possible. This is the way we can work as an organized whole for the betterment of our life, improvement of our own thoughts and for the greater good of this world. I wish that each of us will have a deeper realization and deeper understanding of our own limitations and the need of one another’s contributions to fill the gap where we fail to comprehend certain things.

God bless each of us as we take endeavor to be better everyday and better in our thoughts.